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 living liberté 

 freedom from relationship abuse 

"Is it normal when he..."

I can tell you.

 

I can answer that Google search question for you. 

All of those questions, in fact.

I spent a long time Googling "is it normal when he does..." or "is it normal when he says...".

 

I was seeking answers in places that couldn't tell me what I needed to know.

As a result, I became trapped in an abusive, unhealthy relationship. And then another, years later, while I still sought those answers.

I am here to stop that happening for other young women. I couldn't find answers back then. But I can provide them now. 

Unsure if it's abusive? Unsure if that argument you had was normal, or if it's one to be worried about? 

I'm here for you

who i am and where i've been.

From my teens to my mid twenties I lived in a situation of domestic violence, coercion and emotional abuse.

Eventually, I broke free, pressed charges, and did all the 'right' things to move on. 

Beyond my escape, I went on to tour the world as a professional dancer. My life became successful on the surface. But underneath it, I was lost. 

I experienced years of severe anxiety and a lingering case of PTSD, which manifested in an eating disorder, before falling predictably into a second relationship of coercive and financial abuse.

It was only when I came to true breaking point that I finally worked through the 'how's and why's' of how I had fallen into relationships like these. In doing so, I found freedom. I found #liberté.

I travel all over the world speaking to young women about relationship health, and writing articles about how to love - and be loved- safely and happily. I have built a life of freedom, and I'm here to support you to do the same.

 

You deserve a life where you're  loved for who you are.

 

It's your freedom, and your liberty.

​Helen Victoria.

Founder & Director

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Questions to ask yourself.

"In the past week..."

...have you been made to feel guilty for something that wasn't your fault?

...have you felt like you can't explain your relationship to the people close to you?

...has your relationship made you feel on top of the world one moment and drained of energy the next? 

 

...have you felt like you aren't being yourself, or that you need to act differently to keep the peace?

...have you regularly felt unhappy, or felt as if you can't pick yourself up in how you're feeling?

Yes?

I offer free mentoring for young women facing abusive relationships. 

Questions to ask yourself.

"In the past week..."

...have you been made to feel guilty for something that wasn't your fault?

...have you felt like you can't explain your relationship to the people close to you?

...has your relationship made you feel on top of the world one moment and drained of energy the next? 

 

...have you felt like you aren't being yourself, or that you need to act differently to keep the peace?

...have you regularly felt unhappy, or felt as if you can't pick yourself up in how you're feeling?

Yes?

I offer free mentoring for young women facing abusive relationships. 

Questions to ask yourself.

"In the past week..."

...have you been made to feel guilty for something that wasn't your fault?

...have you felt like you can't explain your relationship to the people close to you?

...has your relationship made you feel on top of the world one moment and drained of energy the next? 

 

...have you felt like you aren't being yourself, or that you need to act differently to keep the peace?

...have you regularly felt unhappy, or felt as if you can't pick yourself up in how you're feeling?

Yes?

I offer free mentoring for young women facing abusive relationships. 

Living Liberté

"Who is Living Liberté - and how did it all start?"

Living Liberté is a social enterprise tackling Britain’s relationship abuse from a preventative perspective. 

 

Living Liberté provides school workshops, online resources and free mentoring to educate young people about what a healthy relationship looks like.

 

The workshops and resources shared by Living Liberté aim to inform young people of the red flags of abuse along with how to go about forming healthy, happy relationships.

 

A domestic violence survivor herself, Helen Victoria is the proud founder of the relationship education enterprise Living Liberté. Helen is also a freelance writer, specialising in relationship health.

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