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 living liberté 

 freedom from relationship abuse 

"Is it normal when he..."

I can tell you.

 

I can answer that Google search question for you. 

All of those questions, in fact.

I spent a long time Googling "is it normal when he does..." or "is it normal when he says...".

 

I was seeking answers in places that couldn't tell me what I needed to know.

As a result, I became trapped in an abusive, unhealthy relationship. And then another, years later, while I still sought those answers.

I am here to stop that happening for other young women. I couldn't find answers back then. But I can provide them now. 

Unsure if it's abusive? Unsure if that argument you had was normal, or if it's one to be worried about? 

I'm here for you

who i am and where i've been.

From my teens to my mid twenties I lived in a situation of

domestic violence, coercion and emotional abuse.

Eventually, I broke free, pressed charges, and did all the 'right' things to move on. 

Beyond my escape, I went on to tour the world as a professional dancer. My life became successful on the surface. But underneath it, I was lost. 

I experienced years of severe anxiety and a lingering case of PTSD, which manifested in an eating disorder, before falling predictably into a second relationship of coercive and financial abuse.

It was only when I came to true breaking point that I finally worked through the 'how's and why's' of how I had fallen into relationships like these. In doing so, I found my freedom. I found my #liberté

I travel all over the world speaking to young women from all backgrounds

about relationships, as embodied proof that freedom from abuse is a standard to be expected.

 

You deserve a life where you're  loved for who you are.

 

I'm here to share with you how.

​Helen Victoria.

Founder & Director

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Questions to ask yourself.

"In the past week..."

...have you been made to feel guilty for something that wasn't your fault?

...have you felt like you can't explain your relationship to the people close to you?

...has your relationship made you feel on top of the world one moment and drained of energy the next? 

 

...have you felt like you aren't being yourself, or that you need to act differently to keep the peace?

...have you regularly felt unhappy, or felt as if you can't pick yourself up in how you're feeling?

Yes?

I offer free mentoring for young women facing abusive relationships. 

Questions to ask yourself.

"In the past week..."

...have you been made to feel guilty for something that wasn't your fault?

...have you felt like you can't explain your relationship to the people close to you?

...has your relationship made you feel on top of the world one moment and drained of energy the next? 

 

...have you felt like you aren't being yourself, or that you need to act differently to keep the peace?

...have you regularly felt unhappy, or felt as if you can't pick yourself up in how you're feeling?

Yes?

I offer free mentoring for young women facing abusive relationships. 

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